It all began with a marshmallow. Yes, a marshmallow. In the following video, hear Dr. Stuart Shanker explain the crucial role self-regulation plays in a child’s present and future success and how a marshmallow was involved in the discovery of this important information! Dr. Shanker will be speaking on the subject of self-regulation at the […]
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Getting Kids to Listen Can be as Simple as Asking a Question! My last post was with regards to the need to develop children’s inner locus of control and the fact that children who develop a strong inner locus of control are also more successful academically and in other areas of life. One of the
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Practicing power “with” children vs. power “over” children can be more of a shift in thinking for adults than actually giving up punishment. We often think it is more about what we do “to” children to make them change their ways (the power over thing again)! To recap Steps 1 – 3 (in “Encouraging Children
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The most effective way to influence behaviour is through encouragement. To clarify, however, encouragement is not about being permissive or letting children “get away” with things. Sometimes encouragement has to come in the form of being firm with children. Children need structure and they need limits. Without them, they flounder. One of the foundational
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“My child refuses to cooperate.” “He/she is so strong willed and disobedient”. These are common concerns expressed by parents. Unfortunately, many parents escalate the problem because they feel they have to “win”. All too often, parents allow themselves to get drawn into power struggles and the more they try to force their will, the more the
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Ruth Buffam
Certified Positive Discipline Educator & Trainer
Positive Discipline Solutions Canada